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What are the different types of co-sleeping arrangements and which one is best for my family?

Hi everyone,

I'm a new mom and I'm looking for some advice on co-sleeping arrangements. I've read a lot about different kinds of co-sleeping and I'm a bit overwhelmed. I want to make sure I choose the safest and most practical option for me and my baby.

Currently, I'm breastfeeding and I find it easiest to have my baby close by at night. I have a bassinet next to my bed, but I'm considering trying out co-sleeping. I've heard it can be a great bonding experience for both mother and baby, but I want to make sure I do it in a safe way.

What are the different types of co-sleeping arrangements? Are there any that are safer than others? How do I know which one is best for me and my family? Any advice or personal experiences would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you in advance!

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Hello there!

As a mom who co-slept with her twins, I found that having a separate side sleeper was the best option for us. The side sleeper attached to our bed, but it had a separate sleeping surface for the babies. It was roomy yet safe and they would sleep soundly knowing mom was right there.

We also had a small portable co-sleeper that we could easily move around the house so that the babies could sleep while we were in another room. It was great for us as we could be with the babies and still be able to accomplish other things around the house.

I would say that the side sleeper was our most preferred option as it was safe, snug around the edges, and it was easy to breastfeed during night times. I liked that we could easily move it around the house, and it was perfect for getting the babies used to their own sleeping spaces.

My advice would be to consider each co-sleeping arrangement option based on how it fits best in your lifestyle, as it should be what makes you and your baby comfortable and happy.

I hope my experience helps!


Hey there,

After months of worrying about where to have my baby sleep when he arrives, we finally settled on a bedside bassinet. We placed it right next to our bed, and it was amazing having our newborn right there beside us. We could quickly and easily reach him to feed or check on him throughout the night. I must say, it provided me with peace of mind knowing he was close.

However, co-sleeping didn't work for us as our tiny guy needed his personal space, and often interrupted our sleep with his movements. The diaper changes and hungry cries were also difficult to deal with in the middle of the night.

I think the best advice I can give is to try different co-sleeping arrangements and see which one fits best for you and your baby. There is no one-size-fits-all solution when it comes to raising kids, and parenting is all about figuring out what works for your family. So, do what makes you comfortable and happy and go with it.

Good luck and have a great time!



As a mother of three, we had different co-sleeping arrangements for each of our children. For our first child, we had a crib right next to our bed so that we could easily reach him during the night. This arrangement worked great until our son was about six months old and began sleeping throughout the night. This resulted in our many sleepless nights, as we would jump out of bed at every whimper or sound from our son.

For our second child, we tried a sidecar crib that attached to our bed, and it was a game-changer for us. We could lie down and comfort our baby as needed, while also having our own space to sleep. It was a safe option as the crib was attached and secured to our bed, and we didn't have to worry about rolling over onto our baby unintentionally.

We used a bedside bassinet for our third child, which we found to be perfect for our family. It was easy to transport and lightweight, so we could move it from room to room throughout the day. It was also a great option for night feedings, as our baby could sleep comfortably next to us.

In conclusion, the best co-sleeping arrangement is dependent on the needs and preferences of your family. I suggest trying different options to see what works best for you and your child, and don't be afraid to change things up as your child grows and their needs change.

Best of luck and enjoy those precious moments!


Hi all,

I am the mother of a toddler who co-slept with us for the first year. We had a simple co-sleeping arrangement where we had our mattress on the floor, and our baby's crib was right next to it. We had a baby monitor, so it was easy to hear and see our baby from our bed.

We found this set up to be the best option for our family since it made nighttime nursing and comforting our baby simple and easy. It was also great for my partner, who is a light sleeper, since it meant he wasn't disturbed as much during the night.

Once our baby started crawling, we transitioned to having him use a low bed beside our mattress. This worked perfectly, and we loved that our baby was able to have his own sleeping space next to ours.

My advice would be to try out different co-sleeping arrangements, and see what works best for you and your family. I think it's important to keep in mind that these arrangements can evolve as your child grows and develops, so don't worry if you need to try something new down the road.

I hope this information helps!


Hi there!

As a parent who co-slept with my child for the first year, I can share my personal experience with you. We used a co-sleeper that attached to our bed, and it was a game-changer for us. It was easy to breastfeed in the middle of the night and also kept our baby close by for us to check on him throughout the night. I found it to be the safest option as the co-sleeper had a firm and secure attachment to our bed.

However, as my child became more mobile, we transitioned to a floor mattress where we could all sleep together safely. We made sure to take precautions such as removing any loose bedding and ensuring that there were no gaps between the bed and the surrounding surfaces. Despite this setup being the safest for us, it may not work as well for all families.

Overall, I believe it's essential to do research and choose the co-sleeping arrangement that is safest and most comfortable for both you and your baby. Remember, there is no one-size-fits-all solution, so it's important to find what works best for your family.

Best of luck to you!


Hi everyone!

As a mother of a 3-month-old, we have been co-sleeping since day one, and I wouldn't have it any other way. For our family, the best co-sleeping arrangement has been bed-sharing. I was initially nervous about it, but with some research and taking appropriate safety precautions, we have found it to be a perfect option for all three of us.

We use a side protection pillow that helps to keep our baby safe while she sleeps alongside us. It is a simple and affordable solution, and most importantly, it keeps her close to me, making nighttime feedings easy and stress-free.

We also follow the safe sleep guidelines, such as not using pillows, blankets, and ensuring that our mattress is firm and free from any gaps. We find that having our baby right beside us, keeps us more aware of her sleep movements and have peace of mind knowing she is safe and secure.

Of course, I understand that bed-sharing isn't for everyone, but for our family, it's the best co-sleeping arrangement, and we love it. My advice would be to research and educate yourself about bed-sharing before deciding if it is right for your family.

I hope this helps!

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