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What are some strategies for promoting healthy sleep hygiene for both me and my baby while co-sleeping?

Hi everyone,

I recently became a new mom and have decided to co-sleep with my baby. However, I am worried about maintaining good sleep hygiene for both myself and my baby. I want to ensure we are both getting the best sleep possible.

Does anyone have any strategies or tips for promoting healthy sleep while co-sleeping? I would love to hear any personal experiences or advice from other parents who have successfully co-slept without compromising on their sleep quality. Thank you in advance!

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Hey there!

I can totally relate to what you're going through. When my baby was born, I co-slept with him for the first few months but struggled to get good quality sleep. One of the things that helped me was investing in a comfortable and supportive mattress that provided ample space for me and my baby.

Moreover, I created a consistent bedtime routine for my baby that included a bath, diaper change, reading a book, and singing a lullaby. This routine helped create a sense of familiarity and comfort for my baby, which made it easier for him to fall asleep and stay asleep throughout the night.

Another tip that proved to be helpful was listening to my baby's cues. Observing my baby's sleep patterns helped me figure out when he was getting tired or needed to be fed. Being responsive to his needs allowed us to quickly settle back into our sleep routine and avoid any unnecessary disruptions.

I hope these tips help you on your journey to establishing healthy sleep hygiene while co-sleeping. Remember, it is possible to co-sleep without compromising on quality sleep for both you and your baby!


Hello everyone!

I'm excited to share some tips from my personal experience with co-sleeping. First, I found it helpful to make sure I was comfortable and felt supported while co-sleeping. Investing in a comfortable bed and pillows made it easier for me to get the restful sleep I needed.

In addition, I found that creating a safe sleep environment was crucial. I made sure that there were no loose blankets, pillows, or any other items that could pose a suffocation risk for my baby. I also made sure to place my baby on their back to sleep.

Another thing that helped us was having a set bedtime routine. Our routine included dimming the lights, changing into pajamas, drinking a warm bottle, and a little snuggle time. This routine helped signal to my baby that it was time for sleep and helped us both relax and unwind.

Lastly, I made sure to take care of myself. As a new mom, it's easy to put all of your energy into taking care of your baby and forget to take care of yourself. I found that taking a warm bath or reading a book before bed helped me relax and get the quality sleep I needed.

I hope these tips help you and your baby get the best sleep possible while co-sleeping!


Hi there,

As somebody who co-slept with two kids, I can give you some tips that were helpful for me. First of all, once you become more confident with your baby's movements and temperament, you can consider using a bed-sharing device that safely separates you and your baby while still providing close physical contact. These allow for extra space while preventing accidental suffocation and fire hazards..

Another strategy that can be helpful is to make sure the sleeping setup is inclusive of both parents. This not only helps to ensure that both parents get adequate rest, but it also promotes relationship quality. It is also recommended to plan ahead to make sure that both parents get an uninterrupted night's sleep. This means prepping meals ahead of time, arranging for help with night-time feedings or diaper changes when feasible, etc.

Lastly, if you are having trouble with feeling like you need more space, there is no shame in breaking up the co-sleeping routine. When my son was around four months old, he began to move around a lot in his sleep and it became difficult for all of us to sleep well. At this point, we transitioned him to his crib and found that we all slept better. It's important to remember that what works for one family may not work for another, and that it's okay to shift gears if necessary.

I hope these suggestions are helpful and you find what works best for you and your baby!


Hi there!

As a mom who co-slept with all three of my kids, I can offer a few tips that helped us maintain healthy sleep hygiene. First, invest in a good co-sleeping bassinet that attaches securely to your bed. This will allow you to be physically close to your baby while also giving each of you the space you need to get restful sleep.

Next, establish a consistent sleep routine that includes a wind-down time before bed. This could include a bath, a story, or a lullaby. The routine will signal to your baby that it's time to sleep and will help them feel more relaxed.

Finally, be sure to create a peaceful sleep environment. Keep the room dark, quiet, and at a comfortable temperature. If your baby is fussy or has trouble settling, consider using a white noise machine or a pacifier.

With these strategies in mind, co-sleeping can be a wonderful way to bond with your baby while also getting the restorative sleep you both need. Good luck!

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