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What are some strategies for managing nighttime awakenings and soothing my baby back to sleep while co-sleeping?

Hi everyone,

My baby has been co-sleeping with me for a few months now and I've noticed that she often wakes up in the middle of the night and has trouble falling back asleep. I'm looking for some strategies to help soothe her and get her back to sleep while still co-sleeping.

I want to make sure that she's comfortable but also that I'm able to get enough rest myself. Any tips or advice would be greatly appreciated! Thank you.

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Hi there! As a parent who has been co-sleeping with my baby for a while, I can definitely relate to the challenges of managing night awakenings. I have found a few strategies that have worked for me and might help you too.

1. Implement a Bedtime Routine: I find that a predictable routine before bedtime helps cue my baby's mind and body that it's time to sleep. We usually have 30 minutes of quiet playtime, a warm bath, and singing lullabies or reading bedtime stories.

2. Stay Calm and Relaxed: When my baby wakes up crying or fussy, I take a deep breath, stay calm, and avoid turning on any bright lights or screens. I've found that a soothing voice and gentle touch helps her return to sleep more easily.

3. Offer a Comfy Sleep Environment: Creating a comfortable sleeping environment for your baby can help reduce awakenings. Make sure your beddings are soft, your room temperature is comfortable, and you have a comfortable pile of pillows that can help you position your baby safely.

4. Try Dream Feeding: Sometimes, my baby wakes up for a feeding even though she's not fully conscious. So, I take advantage of such moments by nursing her gently, which helps her drift off to sleep quicker.

5. Regular Naps: I've discovered that when my baby gets enough sleep throughout the day, she's less likely to wake up frequently at night. So, plenty of naps during the day help improve night sleeps.

I hope these strategies help you and your baby get some much-needed rest. Remember, co-sleeping is temporary, and you're doing an amazing job!


Hi there! I completely understand what you're going through. My co-sleeping baby also went through a phase where she would wake up frequently in the middle of the night and have trouble falling back asleep. Here are some strategies that worked for me:

1. Try to create a calming bedtime routine: Before bedtime, we would take a bath, read a few stories, and dim the lights to create a relaxing environment. This helped signal to my baby that it was time for sleep.

2. Use white noise: We started using a white noise machine which really helped drown out any background noise and create a soothing atmosphere for my baby to sleep in.

3. Offer a pacifier or comfort item: My baby really responded well to having a pacifier or snuggly toy to hold onto while sleeping. If she wakes up at night, having this comfort item there can help soothe her back to sleep.

4. Pat or shush your baby back to sleep: If my baby wakes up at night and starts to fuss, I try to gently pat or shush her back to sleep. This helps reassure her that I'm still there and she's not alone.

I hope these tips help you and your little one get a better night's sleep!


Hello, I just wanted to share some things that have helped me knock nighttime awakenings on their head while co-sleeping with my baby.

1. Avoid Over-stimulation Before Bedtime: over-stimulation at nighttime can contribute to sleep disturbances. So, here's what we did: we started dimming our lights a few hours before bedtime and ditched any devices at least half an hour before bedtime.

2. Consider Your Baby's Hunger Needs: I noticed that satisfying my baby's hunger needs before bedtime drastically helped battle night disturbances. So you can consider feeding your baby before you both retire for the night.

3. Keep Your Baby Calm While Navigating the Night Disturbances: Sleep disturbance can get your baby feeling out of sorts. So be calm while managing the situation. Try rocking or breast-feeding them until they fall asleep. You could hum or sing songs to keep them calm too.

4. Check the Temperature: Babies are usually sensitive to temperatures that are too hot or too cold. Consider checking the temperature of the room to avoid temperature-induced sleep disturbances.

5. Reassure your baby: Lastly, provide physical touch and reassurance to your baby. Knowing that you are there with them often helps them resist the urge to wake up multiple times.

Remember, every baby is different, and so not every technique works perfectly with every baby. So you might want to try out some strategies to figure what works for your baby.


Hello there! I also co-sleep with my baby and I can truly empathize with your situation. It's never easy when your baby wakes up and refuses to go back to sleep. Here are some of the strategies that have worked for me:

1. Be patient: It's important to remember that your baby is still adjusting to their sleeping routine. They need time to get used to sleeping through the night, so try to be patient with them when they wake up.

2. Offer a feeding: Sometimes when my baby wakes up, it's because they're hungry or thirsty. So, I offer a feeding to help them fall back asleep. This also helps me bond with my baby and make them feel secure.

3. Stay calm and relaxed: It's important to remain calm and relaxed when your baby wakes up at night. If you're anxious or stressed, it might make it harder for your baby to fall back asleep. Try deep breathing exercises or meditation techniques to help you stay calm.

4. Allow your baby to self-soothe: At times when I comfort my baby and they still fidget, I allow them to self-soothe. It might sound cruel, but often, it's what helped them fall back asleep.

Remember, every baby is different, and you need to find what works for you and your baby. Don't fret if something doesn't work the first time around - parenthood is a learning curve. Give yourself grace and know that there's always another opportunity to try again.


Hey there! Co-sleeping can be both rewarding and exhausting at times, especially when it comes to nighttime awakenings. Here are some strategies that I found helpful in managing these awakenings and soothing my baby back to sleep:

1. Find the right co-sleeping setup: Make sure that you have a comfortable and safe co-sleeping arrangement that works for you and your baby. This may involve changing up pillows or covers, finding the right temperature or using a co-sleeping bassinet for added safety.

2. Create a sleep-friendly environment: Creating a soothing and sleep-friendly environment is crucial. Keep the room dark and quiet, and avoid over-stimulating your baby with screens or bright lights before bed.

3. Use comfort techniques: If your baby wakes up and is having trouble settling back down, try using some comfort techniques such as gently rubbing their back or humming a tune.

4. Experiment with different sleeping positions: Experimenting with different sleeping positions can be useful. Some babies prefer sleeping on their side or stomach or in a different position that they prefer.

5. Remain Consistent: Lastly, consistency is key. Try to establish a routine and stick to it even if it doesn't show immediate results. Babies thrive on consistency and reassurance.

Hang in there, eventually you and your baby will develop a nighttime routine that works for both of you.


Hola! As a fellow co-sleeper, I know how demanding it can be when a baby wakes up several times overnight. Here's what has worked for me, and hopefully, will work for you too.

1. Ensure a Comfortable Sleeping Position: I realized that finding a comfortable sleeping position for both my baby and me helps reduce night awakenings, and it's worth the effort. You might want to try different techniques to protect your baby and ensure they are comfortable.

2. Limit Daytime High-Intensity Activities: I realized that the level of stimulation my baby received during the day was directly proportional to how disturbed their sleep was at night. So, I tried to reduce daytime activities that are too intense, including the hour before bedtime.

3. Consider Babywearing: Babywearing has been known to work wonders in producing good sleep habits for babies. I kept my baby close to me during the day, and this helped her sleep for more extended periods at night.

4. Use Aromatherapy: Lavender or other aroma oils with a calming scent can create a soothing and calming environment. I found that adding a few drops of lavender oil to the diffuser before bedtime helped a lot.

5. Patience: Finally, be patient with yourself and your baby. Babies are still growing and developing, and that included their sleep patterns. I found that practicing patience with my baby was helpful in managing nighttime disruptions.

Hang in there, these night awakenings are just a phase and won't last forever. You've got this, and your baby will sleep better as they grow older.

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