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What are some potential benefits and challenges of room-sharing versus bed-sharing while co-sleeping with my baby?

Hello everyone, I am a soon-to-be parent and I am trying to weigh the pros and cons of room-sharing versus bed-sharing while co-sleeping with my baby. I have heard mixed opinions from friends and family and would love to hear from other parents who have firsthand experience with this.

Personally, I am leaning towards bed-sharing as I feel it may be more convenient for breastfeeding and bonding with my baby. However, I am also concerned about the safety risks and potential for my baby to become dependent on sleeping with me.

On the other hand, room-sharing seems like a safer option and may make the transition to their own room easier in the future. However, I worry about disrupted sleep for both myself and my baby and the potential for frequent waking up and needing to attend to my baby's needs.

Overall, I want to make the best decision for both the safety and well-being of my baby and myself. Any insights and experiences on this topic would be greatly appreciated. Thank you in advance!

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Hey everyone, I want to share my experience with bed-sharing while co-sleeping. When my daughter was born, we tried room-sharing with a bassinet next to our bed, but it was too difficult to get up and attend to her needs every time she awoke. It was also hard to bond with her during the night as I felt she was too far away from me.

Eventually, we decided to try bed-sharing, which provided a more convenient and loving way to attend to our baby's needs during the night. We got a co-sleeper crib that was safe and allowed us to sleep comfortably. Our daughter slept longer and more soundly, and I was able to get good quality rest, as I didn’t have to get up every time she cried.

However, bed-sharing has its own set of challenges. We have to be extra cautious with pillows, blankets, and our movements while we sleep. We also had to ensure our bed has no gaps or crevices, so our daughter doesn't get stuck anywhere. We also had to be mindful of the risks of suffocation and sudden infant death syndrome (SIDS).

In conclusion, bed-sharing can be a great experience for bonding and convenience, but one must practice safety measures and remain vigilant of the potential risks involved. It’s important to eventually transition to a separate sleep space when the time is appropriate.


As a first-time parent, I was worried about the idea of co-sleeping as I've seen many conflicting opinions on room-sharing, bed-sharing and co-sleeping in general. However, I decided to go with room-sharing, as I wanted my baby to have his own sleep space while still being close enough to me.

The first few weeks were challenging as my baby was waking up every two hours for a feeding. Each time he woke up, I had to get out of bed, pick him up and change his diaper, which was taking a lot of time and energy. But as weeks went by, I noticed some improvements as my baby slept for longer periods without needing a feeding, which in turn gave me longer stretches of sleep as well.

One benefit of room-sharing was that I was able to be more in tune with my baby's needs, like if he had any discomfort or was getting too cold or hot. Additionally, I found it easier to comfort him without having to get out of bed and pick him up all the time.

Overall, room-sharing has been a great experience for me and my baby. I feel that it's the safest option available while still allowing our family to get a more restful sleep. I believe it also can help with the transition to sleeping independently when he is ready to move into his own room.


Hi there! I have two children and have tried both room-sharing and bed-sharing while co-sleeping. In my opinion, room-sharing is the way to go.

When my first child was born, I had the intention of bed-sharing for the convenience of night-time breastfeeding. However, I quickly realized that it was difficult for me to get quality sleep with a baby in the bed. My baby was also a very light sleeper and would wake up frequently, which disrupted my own sleep. Additionally, I was worried about the safety risks of having my baby so close to me.

With my second child, I opted for room-sharing instead. I set up a bassinet right next to my bed and found it to be just as convenient for breastfeeding. However, I was able to get a better quality of sleep as my baby's sounds didn't disturb me as much. I also felt a greater sense of peace of mind knowing that my baby was in a separate sleep space, yet still close enough for easy access during feeding and changing.

Of course, every parent and baby is different and what works for some may not work for others. Ultimately, I think it's important to prioritize safety and find what allows for the best quality of sleep for both the baby and parent.


Hello everyone, I have a different experience to share when it comes to room-sharing versus bed-sharing while co-sleeping. When my son was born, I had every intention of room-sharing as I had heard about the safety risks of bed-sharing.

However, I found that having my son in the same room as me, but in a separate bassinet, was still disruptive to my sleep. Every time he made a noise or moved, I woke up and had a hard time falling back asleep. I also found that I was getting up and checking on him more often because I couldn't see him as easily from where I was sleeping.

Eventually, I tried bed-sharing with a co-sleeper attached to the bed and found that it worked better for both me and my son. He was still within arms reach for feedings and comforting, but I wasn't waking up as much because I could easily see and check on him.

Of course, it's important to prioritize safety and make sure that the sleep space is appropriate for bed-sharing. But in my experience, I found bed-sharing to be a better option for a more restful sleep for both me and my baby.


Hello everyone, I also want to share my experience with room-sharing while co-sleeping. When my daughter was born, we initially had her sleep in her own crib in her own room. However, I found it difficult to get a full night's rest as I was constantly worried about her safety and would check on her frequently throughout the night.

We eventually moved her into our room and placed her in a bassinet next to our bed. I found this to be a great solution as I was able to attend to her needs quickly and easily during the night. I also had greater peace of mind knowing that she was close by and that I could hear her if she needed me.

One challenge we faced was finding a bassinet that allowed for adequate space as our daughter grew. Eventually, we transitioned her into her own room with a baby monitor, which was a difficult transition at first as she was used to being in our room. However, we found that she slept better and was able to establish her own sleep routine in her own space.

Overall, I believe that room-sharing while co-sleeping can be a great option for parents and their babies. It provides easy access for night-time feedings and diaper changes while also providing greater peace of mind. However, it's important to find a sleep space that allows for both safety and comfort for both the baby and the parents.


Hi everyone, I want to offer a different perspective when it comes to room-sharing versus bed-sharing while co-sleeping. When my son was born, we decided to try both options and found a combination of both to be the best fit for our family.

We started with bed-sharing, as it provided easier access to breastfeeding during the night, and we felt that sharing a bed helped to establish a closer bond between me and my baby. However, we found that bed-sharing wasn't always conducive to restful sleep, especially as my baby got older and started moving around more. It also created some safety concerns that were difficult to manage.

So, we supplemented with room-sharing. We got a crib and placed it right next to our bed, and at night my baby would sleep in his own bed while still being close enough to me for easy feeding and comforting. This arrangement offered the best of both worlds - a peaceful and safe sleep environment for my baby and me, while also allowing for the closeness and convenience of bed-sharing.

That said, finding the right balance between room-sharing and bed-sharing may take some experimentation, and it's important to prioritize safety and get a baby monitor to ensure that your baby is always safe and secure. It's also essential to listen to your own instincts and prioritize what works best for you and your family.


Hi everyone, I wanted to chime in as a parent who has had experience with both bed-sharing and room-sharing while co-sleeping. My experience has been different from the previous speakers, as I found bed-sharing to be a better choice for me and my baby.

When my son was born, we initially had him sleep in a bassinet right next to our bed. However, I found it difficult to attend to his needs quickly and easily during the night, especially when I was exhausted and half-asleep. This resulted in lots of crying and fussiness, making it difficult for both of us to get restful sleep.

Eventually, we tried bed-sharing with a co-sleeping crib that attached to our bed. This allowed us to have the closeness and ease of access for night-time feeding and diaper changes, while also ensuring that my baby was in a safe sleep space. I found that with bed-sharing, my baby slept better and longer, and I was able to get more restful sleep as well.

I understand that bed-sharing may not be the best choice for everyone and it's important to prioritize safety. However, for me personally, bed-sharing was a great solution that allowed me to easily attend to my baby's needs and get more restful sleep. It's important to find what works best for you and your family.

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