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What are some natural ways to encourage my toddler to go potty without relying on bribes or rewards?

Hello everyone,

I am a first-time mom and my toddler is showing some signs that he might be ready to start potty training. However, I want to encourage him to use the potty without relying on bribes or rewards. I feel like this will help him understand that using the potty is just a natural part of growing up and not something he needs to be rewarded for.

Does anyone have any tips or natural ways to encourage him to start using the potty without bribing him with candy or toys? I would really appreciate any advice or personal stories of what worked for you, so I can start potty training my son in a positive and healthy way.

Thank you so much!

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curtis60

Hello there!

I completely agree with what User 1 has mentioned. Along with making using the potty a fun experience, we also used positive reinforcement to encourage our toddler to go potty. We would praise her and give her a high five each time she used the potty on her own. It was a form of encouragement rather than a reward.

Another thing that worked really well for us was to set a routine around using the potty. We made sure to take our toddler to the bathroom at the same time every day, so she knew when to expect it. This routine helped her develop a sense of independence and she began to initiate going to the bathroom on her own.

We also allowed her to pick out her own potty seat and underwear. This gave her a sense of ownership and responsibility, and made her more excited to use the potty. It was like a fun project for her, and she loved picking out her own designs and patterns.

Lastly, we made sure to be patient with her and to not push her too hard. Every child is different, and some may take longer to learn than others. We wanted to make sure that she felt supported and loved throughout the process, and that she didn't feel like she was being forced to learn something before she was ready.

I hope these tips help you with your potty training journey. Good luck!

wava67

Hello,

I have potty trained both of my kids using a natural approach, and one thing that I found really helpful was to involve my children in the process as much as possible. This could mean letting them help pick out their own potty, like User 2 mentioned, or having them help you clean up any accidents that may happen.

Another thing that worked well for us was to talk to our kids about how their body works and why it's important to use the potty. We would use books or videos that explained things in a simple, kid-friendly way. This helped our kids understand why they needed to use the potty, and it helped them feel more in control of the process.

We also tried not to make a big deal out of accidents, as we didn't want our kids to feel embarrassed or ashamed. Instead, we would calmly clean it up and reassure them that accidents happen, but that we could try again next time.

Lastly, we made sure to consistently remind our kids to use the potty throughout the day. We would set a timer on our phone or watch and have them try to use the potty every hour or so. This helped them take ownership of the process and establish good habits.

I hope these tips help! Potty training can be a challenge, but with patience and a little creativity, it can also be a positive bonding experience for you and your child.

mohr.lucio

Hi everyone!

When I was potty training my son, one thing that worked for us was to make it a game. We would turn going potty into a fun challenge or competition, which he really enjoyed. For example, we would see who could go to the bathroom the fastest, or we would count how many times he went potty in a day. This made it more exciting for him, and he was more willing to try using the potty on his own.

Another thing that helped was to make sure he was comfortable on the potty. We would let him bring toys or books into the bathroom to keep him entertained while he sat on the potty. We also made sure that he had a secure and sturdy potty seat that he felt safe using.

We also tried to make it a family affair. We would have him sit on the potty at the same time as us, so he didn't feel left out. This also helped him see that everyone goes potty, and it's nothing to be embarrassed about.

Finally, we didn't give up when he had setbacks. Potty training can be a long process with many bumps along the way, but we kept reminding him that it was okay to make mistakes, and we would keep working on it together until he was ready.

I hope these tips are helpful to anyone going through potty training. Remember, every child is different and what works for one may not work for another. But with patience and persistence, you'll get there!

vbecker

Hello!

When my daughter was potty training, we found that using positive affirmations was really effective. Instead of bribes or rewards, we would tell her how proud we were of her for trying to use the potty. We would also use phrases like "You're doing a great job!" or "You're a big kid now!" to reinforce her efforts. This helped her feel confident and motivated to continue.

Another thing that helped was to give her plenty of fluids throughout the day. This may seem counterintuitive, but it actually helped her learn to recognize when she needed to go potty. It also helped prevent constipation, which can be a common issue during potty training.

We also tried to make it a relaxing and calm experience. We would dim the lights and play soothing music while she sat on the potty. This helped her relax and focus, which made it easier for her to use the potty successfully.

Lastly, we made sure to celebrate each little milestone. Even if she just sat on the potty without actually going, we would tell her how proud we were of her for trying. This helped her feel encouraged and motivated to keep going.

I hope these tips are helpful for anyone going through potty training. Remember, patience and positivity are key!

lruecker

Hey there!

I have twin boys and potty training them was definitely a challenge. One thing that worked for us was to offer choices. This gave them a sense of control over the process and helped them feel more invested in potty training. For example, we would let them choose whether they wanted to use a small potty or the adult-sized toilet.

Another thing that helped was to use visual aids. We created a fun potty chart, where they could put stickers or draw a picture each time they used the potty successfully. This helped them see their progress and motivated them to keep going.

We also made sure to model good bathroom habits ourselves. We would narrate our own trips to the bathroom, explaining what we were doing and why. This helped our boys understand that using the potty is a normal part of everyday life.

Finally, we made sure to communicate clearly and lovingly. We would explain the process in simple terms and let them know that we were here to support them every step of the way. We would also offer words of encouragement, even when they had setbacks or accidents.

I hope these tips are helpful to anyone struggling with potty training. It can be a frustrating process, but with a little creativity and patience, your child will get there!

greyson.reichel

Hi there!

I totally understand where you're coming from. When I was potty training my daughter, I also wanted to avoid bribes and rewards, opting for a more natural approach. One thing that worked for us was to make using the potty a fun and positive experience. We would celebrate each time she used the potty by doing a little dance or singing a silly song. It made her feel proud of herself and excited to use the potty again.

Another thing that helped was to have her watch me or her dad use the bathroom. We would explain what we were doing and why it was important, which helped her understand that using the potty was a normal, everyday thing. It also helped her feel less afraid or hesitant to try it out for herself.

Lastly, we made sure to give lots of praise and encouragement, even if she didn't successfully use the potty every time. We wanted her to know that we were proud of her for trying, and that it was okay if she didn't get it right the first time. This helped her feel more comfortable and confident as she continued to practice.

I hope these tips help, and good luck with potty training your son!

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