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My toddler is having trouble wiping themselves after using the potty, what can I do to help?

Hi everyone,

I am a concerned parent of a 3-year-old toddler who is currently having difficulty wiping themselves properly after using the potty. I have tried to show them how to do it correctly, but they still seem to struggle with the process. As you can imagine, this has led to some unsanitary situations and I am hoping to find some solutions to help them out.

I would appreciate any advice or tips on how to help my toddler learn how to wipe themselves properly. Have any of you gone through a similar experience with your own children? What strategies have worked for you? Any products you recommend that can make the process easier?

Thank you in advance for your help!

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arno69

Hi everyone,

I had a bit of a different experience with my 4-year-old daughter when it came to wiping after using the potty. Instead of struggling with the physical act of wiping, she had difficulty recognizing when she needed to go to the bathroom in the first place.

To help her with this, we created a routine of visiting the bathroom at regular intervals throughout the day, even if she didn't necessarily feel like she needed to go. This helped to establish a pattern and made it easier for her to recognize when she needed to go.

Once we established the routine, we could then focus on the wiping aspect. We switched to using flushable wipes since they were easier on her sensitive skin and encouraged her to take her time while wiping. We also made sure to praise her for her efforts and celebrate whenever she successfully used the potty and wiped herself properly.

It took a bit of trial and error, but we eventually found a routine that worked for us. Remember, consistency and positive reinforcement are key when it comes to potty training and hygiene habits.

Wishing you all the best!

ohaag

Hey there,

I had a similar experience with my 3-year-old son. He would struggle with wiping himself after using the potty, even after we showed him how to do it.

What worked for us was making it a fun activity. We taught our son a little song to help him remember the steps of wiping properly. It went something like "Front to back, left to right, wipe it clean, clean and bright." He loved singing it and it helped him to remember the proper technique.

We also let him pick out his own flushable wipes with his favorite cartoon character on it. This made the process more enjoyable and he liked using them more than regular toilet paper. We also reminded him to take his time and be thorough while wiping.

Lastly, we made sure to give him lots of praise and positive reinforcement when he did a good job. This helped to motivate him to continue practicing and improving his hygiene habits.

In conclusion, making it fun and incorporating positive reinforcement can be helpful in teaching little ones the proper way to wipe themselves after using the potty.

Hope this helps!

aufderhar.aric

Hi there,

I had a similar problem with my three-year-old son. No matter how much I demonstrated and showed him how to wipe himself after using the potty, he just couldn't seem to get it right. It was embarrassing and a bit frustrating for both of us.

What worked for me was a combination of using wet wipes and letting him use a handheld bidet sprayer. I found that the wet wipes made it easier for him to clean himself without causing any irritation, while the bidet sprayer made it simpler to clean his bottom without the need for him to reach awkwardly. Now, he is more confident in using the potty and cleaning up after himself.

Remember, it's important to be patient and encouraging during the learning process. Potty training can be challenging for both parent and toddler, but with the right tools and mindset, it will eventually come naturally.

Hope this helps!

ckuvalis

Hello everyone,

I understand how challenging it can be to teach your little one the proper way to wipe after using the potty. My 4-year-old has also had trouble with this issue, and it often led to a lot of messes and frustration.

What worked for us was using a gradual approach. Instead of expecting her to learn everything at once, we started by teaching her to clean herself up with just one wipe at a time. We gradually increased the number of wipes until she was comfortable using the appropriate amount. This helped her to understand the process better and build up her confidence.

We also let her pick out her own toilet paper and wipes, which she was excited about. This made the process more fun for her and helped her to take ownership of the task.

Additionally, we found that using a reward chart was helpful in motivating her. We gave her a sticker for each successful potty trip and wipe, and once she reached a certain number of stickers, we gave her a small prize.

Overall, it's important to be patient and encouraging while teaching your little one the proper way to wipe after using the potty. With persistence and support, you will get there eventually.

Good luck!

johnston.ari

Hey there,

I went through a similar situation with my now 5-year-old daughter. What worked for me was using wet wipes instead of toilet paper. I found that it was easier for her to clean herself properly and it eliminated the unpleasant smell that can sometimes linger. Also, I made sure to stress the importance of wiping from front to back to prevent infections.

Another thing that worked for us was getting a small step stool so that she could reach the toilet better. This helped to make the process less of a struggle, and she gained more confidence in her ability to use the potty and clean herself up.

I hope this helps! Best of luck to you and your little one.

chet68

Hello,

I went through a similar situation with my four-year-old daughter. It was difficult and frustrating for both of us, but luckily we found a solution that worked for us.

What worked for us was letting her use flushable wipes instead of regular toilet paper. We also got a potty training seat with a built-in splash guard and handles, which gave her more stability and confidence while using the potty. We also made sure to encourage her to take her time while cleaning herself up and praised her efforts along the way.

Another thing that worked for us was incorporating a reward system. We created a sticker chart and gave her a reward for each successful potty trip and wipe. This motivated her to practice and made the experience more enjoyable for her.

It's important to remember that every child is different and what works for one might not work for another. So, be patient and try different methods until you find what works best for you and your toddler.

Good luck!

harley.hessel

Hey there,

Like many other parents, I also faced this challenge with my 3-year-old son. What worked for us was practicing with him regularly and making it a fun activity. Initially, I used to stand near the bathroom and keep guiding him to wipe himself, but that didn't help much. So, I changed the method and made him practice during bath time. I used to give him a toy and ask him to clean it using a tissue paper. Then, I used to check if the toy was clean or not. This was quite amusing for him and he started enjoying it.

I also made sure to explain the importance of hygiene and its significance in good health. I attached a funny poster on the toilet door, reminding him to clean after using the potty. It worked amazingly, and now he does it as a ritual.

However, one thing that I would suggest is to be consistent with your method. Don't switch up techniques too frequently, otherwise, it can confuse the child. It takes time, but with patience and a little bit of creativity, we can teach our children the right habits.

Good luck!

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