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How do I safely co-sleep with my newborn?

Hi everyone! I'm a new mom and I'm interested in co-sleeping with my newborn baby for convenience and closeness. However, I want to make sure that I do it safely and responsibly. I've read different things online about the risks and benefits of co-sleeping, so I'm a bit confused. Can you share with me some tips or guidelines for safe co-sleeping with my newborn? Are there any specific beds or bedding arrangements that work better for this? Also, what should I avoid doing or having in the bed while co-sleeping? Thank you so much in advance for your help!

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Hi, as someone who has been co-sleeping with my child for several months now, I have a few tips to share that have worked for me. Firstly, I would recommend investing in a co-sleeping bassinet that attaches to the bed. This way, your baby has their own safe space to sleep in, but you can still easily reach them for feeding and reassurance.

In terms of positioning, it's important to make sure that your baby is sleeping on their back and that there are no pillows, blankets or other loose items near them that could pose a suffocation risk. I also place my arm under my baby's head to provide additional support and prevent them from rolling over.

In terms of personal comfort, I would recommend investing in a comfortable and supportive pillow to prevent any neck or back pain. It's also important to make sure that the room is at a comfortable temperature and that you both have appropriate blankets or sleepwear on for the climate.

Ultimately, co-sleeping can be a great way to bond with your child and provide them with a sense of security and closeness. However, it's crucial that it's done safely and responsibly to limit any potential risks. I hope these tips are helpful!


Hi everyone, I would like to share my personal experience with co-sleeping as a new mom. When we first brought our newborn home, I felt anxious about having her sleep in a separate room. I started co-sleeping with her in our bed, but I didn't feel comfortable because I was constantly worried about her safety.

After doing some research, my partner and I decided to try sidecar co-sleeping. We took one side off our bed and attached a co-sleeper bassinet to the bed frame. This allowed our baby to have a separate sleeping space, while still being close to us for feeding and comfort. It also gave me peace of mind knowing that our baby was sleeping in a safe and secure environment.

We also invested in a good quality baby monitor, which helped us keep an ear out for any potential problems. It's important to remember that co-sleeping can be a safe and wonderful bonding experience as long as it's done responsibly and with the right precautions in place. Every family is different, and it's important to find what works best for you and your baby.


Hi there, I have some personal experience with co-sleeping with my newborn so I may be able to share some insight. First and foremost, it's important to have a safe sleeping environment for your baby to avoid any risks. Use a firm mattress and avoid any soft bedding like pillows, blankets or duvets as they can pose a suffocation risk. Use a specifically designed co-sleeping crib or make sure to attach the co-sleeping bassinet securely to the adult bed.

Another important factor to consider is your sleeping position. You should avoid sleeping on your stomach or on your side with your baby in between you and the bed edge. It's recommended to sleep on your back with your baby next to you on their back. This way, you can more easily monitor your baby's breathing and ensure they're not facing any obstructions.

Finally, it's important to listen to your instincts and prioritize your comfort as well. While it's important to make sure the sleeping arrangement is safe for your baby, it's also important for you to be comfortable and get a good night's sleep. Co-sleeping can be a wonderful experience for both you and your baby if done properly and safely.


Hello everyone, as a mother who has co-slept with all of my children, I have found a few things that can make co-sleeping easier and more enjoyable. Firstly, it's important to remember that co-sleeping is a personal decision and every family has to figure out what works best for them.

One thing I would recommend is finding a co-sleeping arrangement that can be easily adjusted. For example, using a bedside sleeper with adjustable leg height can help you get the perfect height for a comfortable fit next to your bed. This can also help prevent you from accidentally rolling over and onto your baby.

Another thing to consider is sleepwear for yourself and your baby. I prefer to use a sleep sack for my baby instead of a blanket, as it reduces the risk of suffocation and keeps them warm without overheating. For myself, I like to wear a nursing tank top and comfortable pajama pants for quick and easy access to breastfeeding.

Lastly, it's important to acknowledge that co-sleeping may not work for everyone. All families are different and some may find that their baby is more comfortable sleeping in their own bed. Always prioritize safety and comfort for both you and your baby.

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