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How do I manage my child's schedule and balance their activities and free time?

Hi everyone,

I'm a new parent and I'm struggling to manage my child's schedule. My child is only 6 years old but has multiple after-school activities like soccer, piano lessons, and dance class. I also want to make sure they have enough free time to play and relax.

I'm worried that I'm overwhelming my child with too many activities, but at the same time, I want them to have the opportunity to explore their interests and develop different skills.

How do you manage your child's schedule and balance their activities and free time? What are some strategies that have worked for you? Any tips on how to prioritize activities or make tough decisions about which ones to cut out? I would really appreciate any advice or guidance you can offer. Thank you!

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Hi there!

As a parent of two kids, balancing their activities and free time has been a constant challenge. What has worked for me is creating a calendar for the entire family and marking down all the after-school activities, school events, and family obligations. This helps us visualize our commitments and ensures we're not overcommitting ourselves.

When it comes to prioritizing activities, we talk to our kids and encourage them to choose the activities they're most interested in. We limit them to no more than two extracurricular activities at a time, so they have enough free time to play, relax, and spend time together.

In the end, we have to remember that our kids are kids, and they need to have a childhood with lots of unstructured playtime. So, we also try to schedule some free days in the calendar where we don't have any activities planned and can spend time doing whatever we feel like.

Hope these tips help!


Hello there,

I can understand your situation as a parent, as I have also faced the same problem. My son is 8 years old and has a wide range of interests. Initially, I signed him up for every activity that he showed interest in, but it soon became a challenge to keep track of everything, and I realized we were all burnt out.

After much deliberation, we decided that he could stick to one or two activities that he genuinely loved and were also manageable for us as a family. We also ensured to keep one or two days a week free to unwind and spend quality time together as a family.

One thing that has worked well for us is using a family planner. We write down all the kids' activities, upcoming events, and any other obligations we have, and we ensure that my son agrees to the schedule before finalizing it.

After that, we prioritize rest and downtime to ensure our son has ample time to play with his friends, read books, and do any other activity he enjoys. This way, he gets to take a break and recharge, ready for the next set of activities.

To sum it up, keeping a balance between activities and free time is essential for everyone in the family. It takes some trial and error to find out how much is too much, but finding a schedule that works and sticking to it can be a great relief.



I understand your concern. As a working parent of a 5-year-old, I usually find it challenging to balance my child's activities and free time. What works for us is setting a limit on how many activities we can fit into our weekly routine. This helps in ensuring that we all have enough time to unwind and bond as a family.

We let our child choose one or two activities they are interested in, whether it's sports, music or dance. We try to choose activities that can be done at most twice a week, so it doesn't consume too much of our time. Additionally, we make sure to involve our child in household chores and other activities like going to the park, reading, and playing board games, which are equally important for their development.

One thing that has helped us is to communicate with our child about their schedule in advance so that they know what to expect, and they have some degree of control over it. We also make sure to take note of any signs of exhaustion or stress and adjust the schedule accordingly.

I hope these tips help you find a good balance between your child's activities and free time.


Hi there,

I completely understand your struggle in balancing your child's activities and free time. I am a stay-at-home mom to three kids, and it can be quite overwhelming at times. One thing that has worked really well for us is having a weekly family meeting.

During the weekly family meetings, we discuss our plans for the week and the activities that my children have for school and extracurricular purposes. This discussion ensures that everyone is on the same page, and everyone's input is taken into consideration.

Apart from this, we have also designated specific days for certain activities. For example, Mondays and Wednesdays are dedicated to sports, Tuesdays and Thursdays for music and guitar lessons, and Fridays are for family fun night. This schedule helps us keep track of our children's activities without overloading them.

I have also learned that it is important to take some downtime, especially for my children who are quite young. We set aside one day on weekends where the children have the freedom to choose their activities with zero obligations.

Overall, finding a balance between activities and free time can be tough, but having a structured schedule and encouraging communication within the family has helped our family manage it effectively.

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