Hello everyone,
I have a question regarding co-sleeping with our baby. My partner and I have been sharing the bed with our 3-month-old baby since his birth. While it has its benefits, I am noticing potential differences in our sleep preferences and habits that sometimes disrupt my sleep.
For example, my partner snores loudly and moves around quite a bit in his sleep, which sometimes wakes me up. Additionally, he likes to keep the room extremely cold, which I find uncomfortable. I am concerned that these differences might negatively affect our sleep and, consequently, our baby's sleep.
I would appreciate any advice or tips on how to handle these potential differences in sleep preferences or habits while co-sleeping with our baby. Thank you in advance.

Hello everyone,
I can completely understand the struggle of co-sleeping with a partner whose sleep preferences are different from yours. When I was co-sleeping with my baby and husband, I also faced similar issues.
One thing that worked for us was adjusting our sleeping positions. Initially, we used to sleep flat on our back, but my partner had sleep apnea and he snored a lot, which made it very difficult for me to get a good night's sleep. Therefore, I suggested that we try sleeping on our sides. Sleeping on our sides not only reduced the snoring but also made it easier for me to breastfeed our baby during the night without disturbing either of them.
Additionally, we made some modifications to the bedroom as well. We started using blackout curtains to keep the room dark and cool, which helped us all sleep soundly. We also invested in a good quality mattress that was supportive and comfortable for all three of us.
Lastly, we developed a routine that worked for us. Establishing an evening routine for the baby, such as a bath, a story, and a lullaby, helped him settle down for the night. We also set up a fixed schedule for feeding him during the night so that we could take turns and get undisturbed sleep.
Overall, it's important to find a routine and sleeping arrangement that works for your family. Being open and honest with your partner about your sleep preferences can go a long way in resolving any issues that might arise.