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How do I establish a bedtime routine that promotes healthy sleep habits for my baby?

Hi everyone,

I am a new mom and I am struggling with establishing a bedtime routine that promotes healthy sleep habits for my baby. My little one is three months old and it seems like every night is a struggle to get her to sleep. I have tried a few things, such as swaddling, white noise machines, and feeding her right before bed, but nothing seems to be working consistently.

I am looking for tips and advice from other parents who have successfully established a solid bedtime routine for their babies. What worked for you? How did you go about implementing it? Any advice or suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance!

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Hi there!

I went through the same struggle with my baby when he was that age. We found that consistency was key in establishing a bedtime routine. We would start with a warm bath, then dim the lights and read a book to him while nursing. This helped him to relax and associate those activities with bedtime. We also made sure to put him in his crib while he was still awake, so that he could learn to self-soothe and fall asleep on his own. It was tough in the beginning, but after a few weeks of sticking with the routine, he started to sleep longer and wake up less frequently at night.

Hope this helps, and best of luck to you and your little one!


Hello there,

I can remember having the same issue with my baby when he was a few months old. We hardly slept at night, and I was constantly tired. That being said, we found that keeping the environment quiet, calm, and relaxing during bedtime was helpful in encouraging our baby to sleep. We stopped watching TV, stopped using our phones and computer at least an hour before bedtime, and kept the room cool. I also made sure to create a feeding schedule and stuck to it.

Besides that, we also made sure our baby went to bed and woke up at the same time every day, even on weekends. We did everything possible to reinforce a sense routine into our baby's life. That consistency eventually led to him being comfortable and familiar with when bedtime would arrive, and he would start feeling sleepy by that time himself.

Overall, everyone's baby is different, and it takes some time and experimentation to figure out what works best. Stay consistent, and don't give up even if you don't see the result you want immediately. It could take a few weeks before you notice any real difference.



As a mother of one, I would love to share how I established a successful sleep routine for my 8-month-old daughter. We found that creating a conducive sleep environment was key. We ensured that her bed was always clean, comfortable, and conducive to sleep. We also used soft night lights to create a relaxing atmosphere for her.

The second thing we did was to create a consistent routine that combined feeding, playtime, and sleep. We included a lullaby session as part of the bedtime routine, as we found it was soothing to her. We also made sure we kept bedtime at the same time every night, weekends included, so that she would learn to recognize when it's time to sleep and when it's time to be awake.

Lastly, we trained our baby to fall asleep on her own. We started by putting her in her crib while she was still awake, so she could learn to self soothe and get used to falling asleep on her own.

It's important to note that each baby is different, and what works for one may not for another. You may need to try different techniques until you find the one that works best for you and your baby. Finally, patience is key. It can take a while to establish a routine, but with determination and effort, you’ll get to enjoy a more peaceful night's sleep.


Hi there,

I had a baby girl who was very fussy and struggled to sleep for the first few months we had her. The turning point was when we realized we needed to establish a better environment and more appropriate nap times for her. She started sleeping soundly through the night when we extended her daytime naps and in turn, encouraging her to sleep longer at night.

One of the biggest things we learned was not to rely solely on a feeding routine, but also to take naps into consideration. We noticed benefits when we kept naptime consistent and incorporated bedtime as part of her nap routine.

We also used aromatherapy in our baby's room by using a diffuser, which we found helps promote relaxation and a sense of calm. There are some great essential oils like lavender and chamomile that can help promote sleep and provide a soothing atmosphere.

Finally, If you're having trouble getting your baby to sleep at night, instead of fretting, it's important to keep calm and composed. Set a calming mood by dimming the lights and talking with your baby in a hushed tone of voice.

Remember, it might take a little while to develop your baby's sleep habits. However, with persistence and a bit of patience, you'll eventually be able to figure out what works best for both you and your baby.


Hello everyone,

I had a difficult time establishing a consistent bedtime routine for my 7-month-old daughter. However, I had great success by trying a method called "Wake-Feed-Play-Sleep".

Essentially this routine involves waking your baby up at a consistent time each day- usually 7 am, then feeding her before her daytime activities begin. It's essential to engage her in interactive play to burn off energy, which helps a lot with the process of winding down. Once she shows signs of tiredness, put her down for a nap while she's still awake. Repeat the cycle throughout the day and remain firm in your routine.

Doing this has helped my baby understand when it’s time to get up, eat, and sleep. Also, it's made it easier for me to get things done while she naps as I know when to expect naptime.

In summary, it's important to test different routines until you find one that works for you and your baby. Patience, consistency and persistence are key to seeing results.


Hello everyone,

I have a 6-month-old baby boy who used to have difficulty with falling asleep and staying asleep all night. We recently discovered a few things that have helped us establish a bedtime routine that works great for him.

One of the things that we found very helpful was creating a comfortable, nurturing sleeping environment. We invested in soft, comfortable bedding and replaced any old, uncomfortable bedding. We also made sure that our baby's room was always cool, dark, and quiet. We are aware that babies require more sleep than adults, so we made it a point to adjust our sleep schedules as well, so that our baby could get enough sleep.

Additionally, we trained him to sleep on his own without relying on us. One of the things that has worked well is helping him to develop a self-soothing practice. We would place him in his crib when he is drowsy but still awake, rather than when he is fully asleep. This helped him learn to fall asleep on his own, without the need for constant external aid or nursing.

Overall, our approach was to be consistent and patient. Creating a steady routine takes time, but it's worth it for the benefits it brings in the long run.



My partner and I struggled with our 4-month-old's sleep routine, but found changing our approach made our lives easier. We realized that our bedtime process included too many stimuli, which made it hard for our baby to differentiate between bedtime and playtime. We simplified the pre-bedtime routine, turning off electronics, reducing sound, and making feeds calm and quiet. This created an environment that was more conducive to sleeping.

Secondly, we ensured our baby had enough daytime stimulation by encouraging playtime during the day, spending time outdoors, and incorporating frequent naps into our baby's routine. This helped our baby burn off excess energy and made it easier for her to sleep at night.

Lastly, I found that baby carriers and bouncers could help her get the rest she needed. These devices helped her relax and lulled her to sleep while we carried on with our day to day activities.

In conclusion, every baby is unique and may require a different approach to sleep routines. It's a process of trial and error, don't give up you'll find the routine that works best for your family.

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