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How can I help my child develop strong problem-solving and critical thinking skills?

Hi everyone,

I'm a parent of a 5-year-old child who I think needs some help in developing problem-solving and critical thinking skills. As a parent, I acknowledge that such skills are imperative for a child's intellectual growth and ability to face life's challenges. So, I want to seek advice on how I can help my child develop these skills at an early age.

I have tried providing her with puzzles and games that encourage problem-solving, but she seems to get bored easily. Thus, I'm looking for other methods that can engage her and motivate her to develop these skills. Any tips or suggestions on this would be much appreciated.

Thanks in advance!

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Hi there,

As a parent of a 7-year-old child, I can relate to your concern about developing problem-solving and critical thinking skills in children. One thing that has worked well for us is incorporating these skills into everyday activities. For example, we encourage our child to think critically about decisions she makes, such as what to wear or what to pack for a family trip. Additionally, we often ask her open-ended questions that promote problem-solving, such as "how can we make this task easier?" or "what would happen if we tried this?"

Another thing that has helped is providing opportunities for our child to explore outside of her comfort zone. We've enrolled her in extracurricular activities and classes that challenge her to problem-solve and think critically. For example, she takes coding classes where she learns to approach problems logically and break them down into smaller components.

Overall, I think it's important to remember that these skills take time to develop, so it's important to be patient and provide plenty of opportunities for your child to practice them. Good luck!



As a parent of a 12-year-old child, I believe that encouraging them to read helps with the development of problem-solving and critical thinking skills. Reading allows them to explore new ideas, develop their imagination and learn to understand and analyse text. We also try and discuss the books they read and have family discussions on the themes within the books.

Another thing that has helped us is encouraging our child to try different things, fail and then reflect on how they can improve next time. It is important to praise effort and the process, rather than just the outcome, this helps them understand the importance of learning from their mistakes.

We also encourage our child to use everyday practical problem-solving skills such as budgeting and time management. Giving them a budget for spending on clothes, toys or books encourages them to plan and think harder about their choices. Similarly, setting time limits for completing homework or projects has helped our child to develop time management and organization skills.

Encouraging children to explore their creativity and interests is also key. Activities such as painting, writing, and gardening allow children to be independent and develop their creativity which in turn promotes problem-solving and critical thinking skills.

In conclusion, there are many ways parents and caregivers can help children develop problem-solving and critical thinking skills. Encouraging children to read, explore new opportunities, and practice everyday problem-solving skills are all effective ways to nurture children's intellectual growth.


Hello there,

As a parent of a 9-year-old child, I can share what has worked well for us in developing problem-solving and critical thinking skills in our child. We have encouraged our child to ask questions, analyze situations, and give different perspectives from a young age. We did this by involving her in discussions, letting her know that her thoughts and opinions matter, and explaining potential consequences of different decisions.

We have also emphasized the importance of perseverance and trial and error. We have encouraged our child to think through problems on her own, try different strategies, and persist until she finds a solution. Failure is an essential part of the process, and we've tried to reinforce that by praising effort and the process rather than only focusing on the outcome.

Finally, we have tried to cultivate an environment that fosters creativity and innovation. We've provided access to a variety of materials, books, and tools so that our child can express herself, experiment, and learn from her mistakes.

In summary, we have focused on encouraging our child to be curious, persevere through challenges, and think creatively. I hope this helps!


Hi everyone,

As a teacher, I have also worked on developing problem-solving and critical thinking skills in children. One activity that has worked well in the classroom is group discussions. When children work together in groups, they can discuss different ideas and strategies, challenge each other's thinking, and work on solving problems collaboratively. This not only helps children develop problem-solving skills but also encourages communication and teamwork.

Another strategy is to ask open-ended questions that encourage children to think critically. For instance, instead of asking children questions with one-word answers, such as "what is the capital city of France," you can ask questions such as "what do you think would happen if all cars were replaced by bicycles?" This encourages children to think about the different factors and consequences that come with such a change, and then use critical thinking skills to make a logical conclusion.

Finally, I would suggest creating opportunities for children to explore real-world problems. By doing so, children can learn to apply their knowledge and skills to real-world challenges which can develop critical thinking and problem-solving skills. This also helps them understand that their knowledge is not just for completing homework but has practical implications.

Overall, I think it's important to remember that building these skills takes time, effort, and patience. But with the right strategies and opportunities, children can develop strong problem-solving and critical thinking skills that will serve them well throughout their lives.

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