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How can I establish a sleep routine for my baby?

Hi everyone,

I am a new parent and I am struggling to establish a sleep routine for my baby. My little one often wakes up multiple times during the night and I find it difficult to get them back to sleep. I have tried various methods like rocking, singing lullabies, and even white noise, but nothing seems to work consistently.

I am hoping to get some advice from other parents who have experienced a similar situation. How did you establish a sleep routine for your baby? What techniques worked best for you? I would love to hear any tips or suggestions that could help me and my baby get a better night's sleep.

Thank you in advance for your help!

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Hi there,

As a parent of a now 2-year-old, I completely understand how challenging it can be to establish a sleep routine for a baby. What worked best for us was to establish a consistent bedtime and wake-up time, even on weekends. We also made sure to follow a consistent bedtime routine that included a bath, storytime, and some cuddles before putting our baby down to sleep.

In addition to a bedtime routine, we found that creating a calm and comfortable sleeping environment was also helpful. This included using blackout curtains to make the room dark and comfortable and keeping the temperature cool to avoid overheating.

Lastly, we made sure to be consistent with our responses to our baby's nighttime wake-ups. We responded with a calm voice, soothing touch, and avoided stimulating activities like playing or turning on lights.

It may take some time and patience, but with a consistent routine and environment, our baby eventually began to sleep through the night more often. Good luck to you and your little one!


Hey there,

When we were trying to establish a sleep routine for our baby, we found that it was really helpful to have a consistent nap schedule during the day as well. This ensured that our baby wasn't too overtired by bedtime and helped them fall asleep more easily.

We also found that it was important to establish a wind-down routine before bedtime. We would dim the lights and avoid any activities that were too stimulating, like playing with toys or watching TV. As a replacement, we would read a story or sing a quiet lullaby to help our baby relax.

Another thing that worked well for us was watching our baby's hunger levels. We made sure to feed them enough during the day so that they were full and satisfied before bedtime. We also avoided feeding them too close to their bedtime, as this could cause discomfort and potential wake-ups during the night.

Overall, it took some trial and error to figure out what worked best for our baby, but with patience and consistency, we were eventually able to establish a sleep routine that worked well for our family. Best of luck to you!


Hello everyone,

I am also a parent who struggled to establish a sleep routine for my baby. In our case, we found that a consistent bedtime was key. We made sure to put our baby down to sleep at the same time each night, and we also woke them up at the same time each morning.

Another thing that we found helpful was to keep our baby's sleep environment simple. We avoided using any sleep aids that might become a crutch for our baby's sleep, such as pacifiers, and instead focused on establishing a consistent routine with a warm bath, a few books and an early goodnight kiss.

Finally, something that worked especially well for us was to prioritize our baby's sleep above anything else. We were careful to plan our schedule around their needs, and we made sure that we were always home early enough so that we didn't mess up their bedtime routine.

It may take some time and patience, but with the right approach, it is possible to establish a sleep routine that works for your baby. Best of luck to everyone trying to do so!



Establishing a sleep routine for our baby was a challenge for us as well. One thing we tried was a gentle sleep training method where we would check on our baby at gradually increasing intervals when they woke up during the night. We would start with checking on them after a few minutes, then gradually increase the time between checks as they became more used to falling asleep independently. This helped our baby learn how to self-soothe and eventually made it easier for them to go back to sleep on their own.

Additionally, we found that consistent exposure to natural light and fresh air during the day helped our baby develop a better internal clock and improved their sleep at night. We would take walks outside during the day and make sure to expose them to lots of natural light.

Finally, we discovered that finding the right sleep environment was key. In our case, our baby slept better with some white noise in the background, like a soft fan or a white noise machine. We also made sure that the room was quiet, cool, and dark, to promote better sleep conditions.

I hope these suggestions help you as you work on establishing a sleep routine for your baby! Good luck!

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