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Can a Co-Sleeper be used for parents who have a large height or weight difference?

Hi everyone,

My husband and I are expecting our first child soon and we are considering co-sleeping as an option. However, we're concerned about our height and weight difference and whether a co-sleeper would be suitable for us.

I am quite petite, standing at only 5'1" and weighing around 110 pounds. On the other hand, my husband is 6'4" and weighs around 230 pounds. We're worried that if we get a co-sleeper, it won't be able to properly support both of us and our baby.

Has anyone else with a significant height and weight difference tried co-sleeping with a co-sleeper? How did it work out for you? Do you have any recommendations for co-sleepers that are sturdy enough for couples with differing body types? We would really appreciate any advice or insights you may have.

Thank you in advance!

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Hello there,

I have personal experience co-sleeping with a height and weight difference as well. I'm 5'2" and weigh around 130 pounds while my spouse is 6'2" and weighs approximately 225 pounds. We decided to co-sleep with our newborn, and we opted for a co-sleeper that attaches to the bed.

Initially, we had difficulty finding a co-sleeper that would work for both of us. However, after some research, we decided to go with an all-metal co-sleeper that had an adjustable height feature. We were able to adjust it to the right height for our bed. It also had sturdy side walls, so my spouse was able to lean against the co-sleeper while sleeping without causing any issues for me and our baby.

The co-sleeper worked great, and we were able to co-sleep for about six months until we moved our baby to her crib. However, I learned that it's essential to make sure that the co-sleeper does not have any gaps between the bed and itself, as that could pose a risk for the baby. I would also advise checking the weight limit of the co-sleeper before purchasing it, to ensure it can support both parents and the infant safely.

Overall, a co-sleeper can work for parents with differing heights and weights as long as you choose a model that is sturdy, adjustable, and fits well with your bed. I hope this helps, congratulations on your little one and all the best!


Hello all,

As parents with a height and weight difference, we also had the same concern when we decided to co-sleep with our child. I'm 5'4" and weigh 110 pounds, while my spouse is 6'5" and weighs around 220 pounds. We researched and found a co-sleeper that could accommodate our size difference and wanted to share our experience.

We decided to go with a co-sleeper that had a sturdy frame and high side walls, ensuring our baby's safety. The height of the co-sleeper was adjustable, which worked well for our bed frame. What worked great for us was the option for the co-sleeper to be tilted towards us to allow for adequate space. We also used a King size bed that gave us enough space to move around comfortably.

However, we did find that as our baby grew, he needed more space and started to take up more of the bed. This made things a bit tricky, especially since my partner was used to having more space to stretch out comfortably while sleeping. We eventually transitioned to a normal crib at around eight months.

In conclusion, for parents with height and weight differences, it’s possible to find a co-sleeper that can accommodate both parents comfortably. A sturdy co-sleeper with adjustable height settings, high side walls, and a weighted bottom can be great options to consider. However, as the baby grows and requires more space, it might become a bit challenging.


Hi there,

I have personal experience with this same question. I am also petite, only 5'2" and weigh 120 pounds while my husband is over 6 feet tall and weighs around 250 pounds. We decided to co-sleep with our first child and purchased a co-sleeper that attached to our bed.

The co-sleeper we purchased was able to support both my husband and me without any issues. It was adjustable to different heights and had a sturdy frame that was able to support my husband's weight. We used it for the first year and it worked out great for us.

That being said, I do think it's important to do your research before purchasing a co-sleeper. Look for co-sleepers that have adjustable height settings and sturdy frames. Also, make sure to check the weight limit on the co-sleeper before purchasing to ensure that it can support both parents and the baby.

Overall, I think a co-sleeper can work for parents with height and weight differences as long as you choose a sturdy and adjustable model. Good luck with your decision and congratulations on your upcoming arrival!


Hello all,

I had the same question when my partner and I decided to co-sleep with our baby. I am 5'3" and weigh around 120 pounds, while my partner is 6'7" and weighs almost 300 pounds. Finding a co-sleeper that could accommodate our size difference wasn't an easy feat.

After researching a bit, we found a co-sleeper that had an adjustable height. It was ideal for our Bed-frame, and it had side walls that were high enough to prevent accidental rolling over of our baby. What was great about the co-sleeper we got was that the bottom was weighted, so it rested-up against the bed frame and didn’t slide around.

We used the co-sleeper for the first six months after our baby boy was born, and it was great. However, we did find our space a little tight at times, since my partner needed a little more room because of his height. At around six months, we transitioned him to his crib.

In conclusion, if you and your partner have a significant height or weight difference, I do recommend you do your research to find a sturdy and adjustable co-sleeper that fits your bed adequately. With the right co-sleeper, co-sleeping can be a fantastic experience for both the parents and the baby.

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